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Social energy

Researchers call it extraversion.

How much time with people gives you energy.

Recharges aloneRecharges with people
Types with Social energy as a strong trait

From one end to the other

Higher

Feeling more like yourself after a night out than after a night in.

With people
Comes alive around people and starts the conversation.
At school or work
Likes talking things through, group work and busy places.
When things get hard
Reaches out and talks it through.
Gives
You can warm up a room that’s gone quiet.
Can cost
A weekend with no plans can feel flat, even when you needed the rest.

Lower

Needing a quiet evening alone after a busy day with people.

With people
Prefers one or two people at a time, and needs quiet afterwards.
At school or work
Does their best thinking alone, with time to prepare.
When things get hard
Goes quiet and sorts it out alone first.
Gives
You’re comfortable in your own company.
Can cost
People can read your quiet as distance when it’s rest.

In the middleWanting people some weeks and your own space other weeks.

What research links it to

How it changes over time

On average, one side of it, social confidence, rises between about 20 and 40. The other side, social vitality, rises in the teenage years and dips in old age.

Roberts, Walton & Viechtbauer (2006), Psychological Bulletin

Questions people ask

What is extraversion?
Extraversion is one of the five traits in the Big Five model of personality. It’s about how much time with people gives you energy. We call it social energy.
Is it bad to be high or low in extraversion?
No. It’s a tendency, not a verdict, and each end gives something and can cost something. Someone higher in it often comes alive around people and starts the conversation. Someone lower often prefers one or two people at a time, and needs quiet afterwards.
What does research link extraversion to?
Across many studies, more extraverted people tend to report more positive feelings. Source: Steel, Schmidt & Shultz (2008), Psychological Bulletin.
Can extraversion change?
Traits tend to move slowly. On average, one side of it, social confidence, rises between about 20 and 40. The other side, social vitality, rises in the teenage years and dips in old age. Source: Roberts, Walton & Viechtbauer (2006), Psychological Bulletin. Scores can also move a little from one day to the next, so a quiz shows how you answered now.

The four statements the quiz uses

From the Mini-IPIP, a public research questionnaire, some put into plainer words.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

  1. “I am usually the one who gets everyone talking.”
  2. “I don’t talk a lot.”Scored the other way round
  3. “I talk to a lot of different people at parties.”
  4. “I stay in the background.”Scored the other way round

Where do you sit on Social energy?

Answer these four statements with the rest of the quiz. Your reading shows your score and what it looks like in your life.

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