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The five traits

Everyone has all five, in different amounts. Neither end is better.

  • Social energy

    How much time with people gives you energy.

    Social energy: pick a level to see what it often looks like

    HighEnjoying people most days, with the odd night you keep for yourself.

    More about Social energy

And how you get close

Six questions of our own, on two things researchers measure in close relationships.

  • Worry about closeness

    How much you worry about where you stand with people.

  • Unease with closeness

    How uneasy it feels to lean on people or let them in.

The dot is one made-up set of answers.

See where you sit on all five.

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